Hasn’t it ever happened to you that the weekend arrives and you want to go out but no one signs up? And you stay home with the desire you had to party after a hard week of work. Haven’t you considered the idea of going out alone? Since no one signs up, you won’t stay home without desire when the night can bring you many surprises. Well, you can go out alone, you have to be willing and daring. To do this, we are going to give you some tips on how to go out partying alone on a Friday or Saturday night and discover that you don’t have to miss a party if you want to go so much and that if what stops you is being seen alone, know that you can hide it.
If you go to a bar
If you have never done it and you don’t know how to act, the first advice we give you is to go to a trusted bar where you know the owners, so you can have a drink and talk to them so you don’t feel so alone and don’t seem like you are without talking to anyone. From there, there may be another person at the bar like you with whom you start a conversation and you can continue having your drinks, this time in company even if it is talking about banalities. If it goes well with the owners, extend the night until closing and ask them where they are going next, with the drinks you will have already had, you will feel braver to join them or anyone at the bar.
If you go to a concert
If you don’t even want to miss that concert that you have been waiting for so much, for which you already have paid tickets and it is one of your favorite groups but no one accompanies you, we recommend that you go and don’t miss it. Keep in mind that in a room where everyone is standing and quite full, no one is going to notice if you are alone or not, people may think that your friends are in the front row, next to you, or at the bar. Enjoy it looking at the stage and no one will notice your loneliness. We recommend that you enter just when it is going to start so that you are not alone in those moments when it has not yet started and people are waiting and chatting.
A party where you don’t know anyone
A friend invites you to a party but you don’t know anyone and you know that he is going to be busy attending to everyone and you are going to be alone. In order not to be constantly attached to your host and seem like his shadow, you will have to wake up, so don’t be shy and go pour yourself a drink and talk to the first one you meet, evaluating the house, the party or the food and saying that you have come because you are friends with someone. You can make a joke to get a smile and have them continue the joke, that way, you can get closer to them or others when you see that you are very alone.
If you go to a pub
You want to go out and all the fun is in the pub area. To delve into just one of them, think that you are going to have one and leave. No one knows that you are going to be alone all night, so you can adopt the attitude that you are waiting for someone, looking at the clock, looking at the door, or looking at the mobile phone. In fact, you can have your drinks at the bar using your cell phone until you feel confident and dance to a song, for example. We recommend changing pubs when having one so that you don’t feel so alone and this isn’t noticeable.
If you go to a nightclub
If you go to a club alone, it is best that you practice a little by going to a bar alone first, since people go to clubs a little later. To avoid going out directly to them from home, go ahead and have a drink so you can warm up. Once you arrive at the club, one of the Scottsdale nightclubs for example, go to the bar to order something, it is where there are usually the most people and no one will notice that you are alone but rather you are simply going to order a drink alone. We recommend that you do not just stand on a wall, but rather go to the floor and dance. Again, since there is music, it is not the best place to be talking but rather dancing, do the same and join groups that dance together with a smile, but without being overwhelming or tiresome. If you see that a person looks at you a lot and you like them, go up and talk to them, you may stop being alone tonight.
So, isn’t it all simple to do?